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Pediatrician and Mom of 4
"I am a pediatrician and the mother of 4 daughters, ages 8yrs, 6yrs and
twins 4yrs. I have been at home with them for the past 6yrs. with no regrets.
I do miss my practice and work about 6-8 hrs/month in the evenings. Is there
anyone out there with a similar experience?" PG, 42, mother of 4
Interested in Part-Time Work Experiences of Other Physicians
"I am interested in the part time work experiences of other women physicians.
I feel that women are often exploited because they need to work part-time for
part of their careers. They can make money for others but are excluded for promotion
and partnership because they are "part-time". Young physicians need
to know how to negotiate their careers and ask for fair salaries, benefits and
career advancement that their training entitles them to and not give up too
much just because they need a different schedule." JS, 37, mother of 2
Went to Medical School at 30
"I was a late bloomer, went to med school at 30 with a wonderful husband
and 2 kids." BN, 43, mother of 2, Family Practice/ Urgent Care
Striking the Balance
"I would like to get suggestions from mothers who are in my profession
about striking a good balance between motherhood and a dedicated pediatrician.
What are the job options available to work part time and do few calls in a month.
I would appreciate the input." NS, 33, mother of one, pediatrics
Physician Mom also married to a Physician
"I have a 20 month old daughter and I work full time in a group practice
at a university. I would not trade my career or my daughter for anything, but
the truth is I had no idea how much having a child would affect my life. It
has made me learn to prioritize my life. I have to be efficient at work because
my daughter, who is at daycare during the week has to be picked up by 6PM. I
no longer have the luxury of staying late at the office to get everything done.
I have started dropping her off early in the AM and finishing my work in the
morning. I want the evening time to be reserved for her. I do still bring work
home at night, but to be honest I only do it about 10% of the time. The weekends
are devoted to her, and to the household chores like grocery shopping. My husband
who is also a physician is no help at all, so if I have to make rounds on the
weekends or if I have speaking engagements at night I have to find a baby-sitter.
I do find myself resentful the he has the freedom to do his work at a leisurely
pace and can come and go when he pleases, and I am expected to make sure everyone
is taken care of. We are women and even though it is almost the 21st century
we will always be expected to provide most of the care for our children."
AC
Baby Girl During LastYear of Residency
"I was fortunate that I had our little girl during my last year of residency
- I'd been "nailed" with all the horrendous rotations early and only
had one "bad" month after her birth which was a blessing. My husband
was laid off from his job a month after she was born and, despite the huge financial
burden, since we were moving 9 months later for my career, he stayed home with
her the entire first year, then she went into day care. They have a really close
bond and, for that, we are all grateful." Dr. M