Re: how do you define putting your family first?

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rs4rs4
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i think i’m older then all of you, so i’m sure my wisdom will soothe any difficult disagreements :rotfl: …..

it isn’t bashing men to see patterns of behavior and cultural issues…and why should SHE get HIM the babysitter….OK, i know marriage can’t work with that attitude BUT….i’ve realized in the last few weeks that i was being TOO flexible and accomodating with my husband and putting his career and schedule first almost all the time (he’s full time MD,i’m part time MD mommy track)…and then hearing him say i wasn’t making much money…

we sat down to plan our vacations, meetings, etc for the year and i documented his agreement to keep our son the saturdays i’m going to work and told him he needed to let me know weeks ahead if he couldn’t do it. so, if HE doesn’t plan and wants to shift plans at the last minute, i’ll be happy to give him the list of babysitters 🙂