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BeckieBeckie
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Hi
I’m not an expert but what it sounds like you are going through is anxiety. I had major anxiety just like this about 3 days ago. I think my hormone levels were out of whack because today I feel so great and nothing has changed…I still have all the same pressures that I had about 3 days ago. I think it is a matter of finding a way to deal with them. Exercise helps me a lot.

All of your concerns are valid and very important to think about. The best thing to do is to make a list of the things that are the most important to you. Like is having kids #1, then put that…etc. Then figure out which things to tackle first. If the secure income bothers you than maybe try to figure out a way that you can come to peace with it. I always think this…I know it sounds horrible…but it’s not the end of the world….Bankruptcy. I don’t think bankruptcy covers student loans but I’m not sure…but at least it’s not the end of the world…you have an option if everything falls apart. My daughter’s aunt filed Bankruptcy and managed to get a house 2 years later and she owns her own business too. So it is possible to still have things even with a bankruptcy. The secure financial future will come in time when you finish school. Just make sure to write down a pros and cons list and go from there and a “most important list.”

Take care,
Beckie