I’ve spent quite a bit of time reading everyone’s posts tonight, and I appreciate all of the info–thanks. It seems that most of you know what you want–either you don’t want to work b/c of family or really want to be a doctor and are managing your family so you can achieve your dream. What if I want to be BOTH a SAHM and a doctor? I honestly don’t have the forsight to know which I will regret giving up. I am in med school now and I am hating being away from my family. But maybe I’m just tired, and I’ll be happy once I have the degree. How can I possibly know? I have come so close to leaving, and it’s hurting my performance. But I also know I would love to go all the way. Any advice? I plan to get pregnant again in about a year.